If you’re focused on productivity and effectively managing your time, you probably create to-do lists for each day. This is a great practice that will help you stay on track and one that I highly recommend. Just as you have your to-do list, you might also want to consider your “not-to-do” list.
Yes, that’s right, your NOT-to-do list. Just as you list the things that you want to do, you want to be real clear about the things that you are not going to do. For instance, a couple of years ago, I chose to no longer allow the lack of planning on the part of others effect me. I was not going to allow my time to be disrespected. That went on my not-to-do list and others would have to learn to respect my time. There are, of course other things on my nt-to-do list.
Take a moment to think about the things that you are committed to NOT doing and create your not-to-do list. Some of the things you might have on your not-to-do list might be: “I won’t over commit myself.”; “I won’t bring home work from the office.” What ever it is that you’ve committed yourself to not doing should go on the list. If you haven’t thought about those things, I suggest that you spend some time to thinking about it.
Once you’ve committed yourself to the things you are determined not to do, refer to your not-to-do list just as you would your daily to-do list. Make this a part of your routine and stick to it! It can help keep you productive just like your daily to-do list will.
Once you make your not-to-do list, leave a comment here and share what you put on your Not-to-do list. I really am interested in knowing.
What a great idea!
I’ve been pretty busy and a bit stressed these past few days. I think I will put, “I will not complain to my husband” on my list… since complaining sometimes just spreads the stress rather than helps relieve it.